I like him, but I like his bestfriend more.
Yes, I’m dating again.
**applauds**
Now, I need some of your help.
I like Person A, who is intelligent, attractive, an entering computer science major at a prestigous university, a compulsive shopper, who loves to spend money on expensive clothing, and hangs out at the clubs every weekend. He compares himself to Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan… Seriously?
I like him. He’s cool, but I also like…
Person B, I can carry a conversation with him for hours, he’s also smart, nicely accented, a hardworker, and is in college getting on his grind majoring in Business and English. He’s not so much into the gay culture, he’s very reserved, and I’m trying to turn him into a republican {but that’s beside the point}. I would totally ask him out on a date, but I can’t date him because his bestfriend is into me! And his bestfriend {Person A}, and I are like dating!
What should I do?
yourTA said,
April 10, 2008 at 4:20 am
i like person b. you want someone you can carry on a conversation with for hours. person a will understand.
Jared said,
April 10, 2008 at 11:19 am
Oh God…..
DeAndré said,
April 10, 2008 at 2:42 pm
oh damn.
andre alllen said,
April 10, 2008 at 5:36 pm
i would do b 2 and tell a no hard feeling but he is mote on my level b.
Clarence said,
April 11, 2008 at 3:39 am
Well seeing as Person B is rather reserved and quiet and not so into gay culture, it doesn’t look like he’s going anywhere anytime soon. So you have some time to do some more window shopping, i.e. Person A.
I say continue with Person A and just see how that pans out, because you already have something there. If it doesn’t transition to Person B. That way it stays within the AB[C]Mode.
andre alllen said,
April 11, 2008 at 7:33 am
so why does he have to be in the gay culture to get consideration?
Darius T. Williams said,
April 11, 2008 at 8:33 pm
You should accept it for what it is and realize that sometimes we can’t have our cake and eat it too. Although, what’s the use of having cake if you can’t eat it? I say take a chance…you never know what will end up happening.
Jared said,
April 12, 2008 at 4:20 pm
I say Person A for two reasons…1) Because all of you are choosing Person B and being judgemental to the fact he’s into gay culture and seems superficial, but probably isn’t….and 2) I think a person who compares themselves to Lindsay Lohan and still attends a prestigious university is a multi-dimensional person worth knowing, and much more fun than a home body who wants to be converted into a Republican … lol…. Love ya’ Queer Kid…
Corey @I'll Keep You Posted said,
April 13, 2008 at 1:23 pm
Kid, you failed to mention whether Person B shared (or was aware of) your feelings. But I suspect you know that by now, huh. I think you KNOW what you like. And what you want. I also think you have nothing to loose (and everything to gain) by going for QUALITY OVER FRIVOLITY. Perhaps you could come out to Person B with your feelings. Maybe he feels the same way. And then the two of you will need to sit down with Person A and talk about it. Remember that you may be able to walk away unscathed, but there may be some bad blood (for awhile) between the two of them - that is if things don’t work out. Real diamonds are always better than rhinestones.
fuzzy said,
April 28, 2008 at 2:09 am
You’re dating? confusion!!! I don’t understand!!!
I go with person B. He seems more appealing, had a lower horse than person A and has more going for him…